Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Transitioning






Just wanted to post a few pictures from our time at home so far. We are working on getting our nights and days turned around. Some nights have been okay and some have been pretty sleepless. He did cut through 2 teeth on the bottom on Monday, which I knew he was working on even when we were still in Vietnam. That brings him up to 8 teeth already. We also tried hi in the bath on Monday night and he loves it! We have a little blow up ducky bath and the beak quacks. It is so cute! Today I picked up some tub toys that he really enjoyed playing with as well. You'll notice that I did not post any bath pictures. I don't want this site to be R rated! (ha,ha) I also don't want my son to come back later and be upset with me for posting them here.

Monday, March 9, 2009

We're Home!






It feels so good to say that we are home as a family of 3. Our plane arrived in Chicago at 11:25 p.m. on Saturday night. After collecting our luggage, we called my aunt and mom, who were waiting a short distance away, and they picked us up and brought us to my aunt's house where my cousin, her son, and my aunt's sister were waiting to welcome us home. We stayed overnight there, as it is a 2-1/2 hour drive home and I was too tired to drive home, especially with a child who was out of sorts from all the traveling.

On Sunday morning, my daughter Rachel, my friend Sue and her son came to my aunt's house so that we would have an extra person in the van for the drive home. I was anticipating a lot of screaming because of the car seat but he did really good. He was asleep shortly after we left. He slept 2 hours of the trip and then ate Cheerios with Rachel.

He gave us a surprise as I was talking to my parents on the phone. He crawled for the first time! All the other times he would just creep and that is what they said he was doing at the Center. I was so excited that he saved this for me to see. He also gave Rachel a surprise before bed: He peed on her! I told her she was officially christened.

It was a rough night of sleep. He really seems to fight going to sleep. This morning Rachel went in to get him up and he was out of his sleeper. We can't quite figure out how he got out because it was completely zipped up yet. I think we have an escape artist on our hands!

Friday, March 6, 2009

Have Visa, Will Travel

Today we had our visa appointment. It went very smoothly. Loc will pick it up at 4:00 and deliver to us by 5:00 so we are coming home tomorrow. We have changed our tickets. We will actually have the same itinerary we would have had leaving next Friday. We are set to arrive at 11:35 p.m. Saturday. I can't wait for everyone to meet Levi. I'm so excited to say WE'RE COMING HOME!

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Sightseeing in Hanoi






We didn't have any appointments today so we had soome time to do some sightseeing. We slept in a little longer than we have been but that was more because a little boy didn't sleep real well last night. At breakfast, we ment at least 4 families from other agencies that are here with their adopted children. It was nice to be able to talk to them and hear about their experiences. After breakfast we headed next door to Hoa Lo Prison. This prison is most famous because it was the place that Senator John McCain was held as a prisoner of war during the Vietnam war after his plane was shot down. It was originally built towards the end of the 19th century by the French in an effort to contain the growth and development of popular anti-colonial movements amongst the Vietnamese community. Most of the prison was demolished in 1993 to make way for what is now the hotel we are currently staying in.

After visiting the prison, we came back to the hotel so that Levi could take a nap. That didn't happen. He only took a second short cat nap in the carrier while grandpa watched a movie. That gave time for the drizzle to stop so that we could go to Hoan Kiem Lake. It was a pretty good walk, especially seeing that we turned a street too early or the woman at the front desk told us wrong. We did get to meet an American family who was on vacation as we asked them how to get to the lake. They had two tour guides who are college students. They are with a group called Hanoi Kids. They give free tours in an effort to improve their English and to help tourists to have a positive outlook on Hanoians. Everywhere we went, people were so curious about Levi. They would mostly ask how old he was. The people here in Hanoi, just like in HCMC, are all so friendly. It truly amazes me!

After Hoan Kiem Lake, we found a store that sells bears that you can have embroidered on. The one we bought for Levi, that I will pick up on Saturday morning, has an outfit with the traditional conical hat and his name and Vietnam on one paw and a star on the other. One of the other moms who is here from another agency shared this shop with me. I thought this would be a meaningful gift for Levi to help him remember his birth country.

Before supper this evening, we went to the playroom on the fifth floor with Liz and her daughters. Levi is not real good about sitting and playing without being on my lap but he did sit and play for a short time, the second time today. Then, we went down to the hotel restaurant for dinner. Mark joined us shortly after we ordered. He has been so nice to hold Levi so that I can eat. What was really cute was when his newly adopted daughter, who doesn't go to him very often, wanted to go to her daddy when she saw him holding Levi. She was a little jealous! So, at one point, for a short time, Mark was holding both babies. Even though she is older than Levi (11 months), she is smaller.

Before going to bed, Levi was able to sit on the floor for a little while and play with his toys. We're making progree!! Now, if I could get him to go to sleep a little easier, we would be doing super!

Tomorrow is the visa interview at the Embassy and hopefully we will have our visas in hand by dinnertime. If that happens, we plan to try to get a flight out either Saturday or Sunday. We have really enjoyed our time here in Vietnam but we are ready to get home and see everyone and get on a good schedule. I don't know how people do it living in a suitcase all the time. I am ready to be done with living out of a suitcase and ready for some homecooked meals.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Good bye HCMC - Hello Hanoi






Today we picked up our paperwork from Minh and traveled to Hanoi. Levi did really well on the airplane ride. He actually fell asleep soon after take off and right before landing. Our hotel room here in Hanoi is more like an apartment with a kitchen, diningroom, livingroom, two bedrooms and two bathroom. It also has a washer/dryer combo. We just hung out at the hotel tonight as we were all tired. Tomorrow we will have a free day so we plan to do some sightseeing. Hopefully it will not rain. Scattered thundershowers are in the forecast.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

A Day of Appointments






Today was a day of appointments for us. We were also blessed to be able to share this day with another family who is here that just adopted their daughter from Ninh Thuan province. They brought their other 3 daughters with them and are a truly wonderful family. It was nice to be able to talk with someone else from the States and share stories about our experiences thus far. I hope that we will be able to keep in contact with them once we return home.

We started the day getting passports for the two children and then went to visa physicals. This was the longer of the two appointments as there were many people waiting for the same thing. When it came time for Levi's physical, he continued his displeasure with having his diaper changed or his clothes removed. The other family could hear him in the waiting room with the door closed!

In the afternoon, Mark and my dad went to get airplane tickets to Hanoi and then Mark and I returned with Minh to pick up the passports. Mark, being obedient to his wife's request, took a picture at the immigration office. He was soon called over to see one of the officials. You are not allowed to take pictures in there. He had to delete it in their presence. Afterwards he told Minh that he told the officials Minh said it was okay. Minh looked so serious and then Mark told him he was just joking. We all had quite a laugh over it! This took longer than I think Minh thought it would, so I was getting a little worried as I had left Levi with my dad. I shouldn't have been worried because I came back to find Levi sound asleeep.

Tonight we had dinner with Mark and his family and the Dillon staff here in Vietnam. They truly are a wonderful group of people who goes out of their way to help the families while they are here. I cannot even begin to express my gratitude to them for making this process less confusing than it could be. I know others who have traveled would agree with me completely.

Levi was getting sleepy towards the end of dinner but was a real fighter when it came to sleeping. He is finally asleep and I am hoping that he will sleep better than last night. I think he is teething and needs to have a bowel movement. Poor little guy! I will soon be joining him in bed if I can find some room to sleep.

Monday, March 2, 2009

It's Official







Levi is sleeping so I now have some time to post. He is an absolute snuggle bug and does not like to be put down, especially away from me. Even if grandpa is holding him, he will look to see where I am.

This morning when we got to the Center, he was in his walker, all dressed up with his hair freshly washed and slicked back. He looked so handsome. As we were standing there with him, grandpa asked him if he like grandpa's shirt and Levi shook his head no. We all got a laugh out of that one! There were 2 different caretakers at the Center today. I could tell as the time came for us to leave that it was very difficult for one of them to see him go. I think the director was having a difficult time as well as both of them were near tears. They have done such an incredible job of taking care of him and I will always be eternally grateful to them for the terrific start they have given to Levi. At first when we got into the van, Levi was wide eyed checking out everything around him. But it wasn't long before he was asleep. He slept until just as it was our time to see the local justice. I was surprised how quickly things went once we got back there. Before long we were on our way back to the hotel to pack up and head to HCMC.

Tonight, after getting something to eat and visiting the Tax Center, we hung around the hotel room. Levi loves to bounce up and down on his feet. When I would say "dance,dance dance" he would shake his head back and forth and around. It was too funny! We are going to have to get it on video.

My Thankful List

  • salvation through Jesus Christ
  • my beautiful daughter who is beautiful from the inside out
  • a referral of an adorable little boy named Levi
  • a letter of intent before the September 1st deadline
  • God spared my daughter from serious injury when hit by a car in Colorado
  • a wonderful year with my "exchange daughter" from Estonia - Mari-Liis
  • my faithful companion for the past 6 years - Millie - my springer spaniel
  • the peace and joy that comes with surrendering everything to the Lord
  • safety through all the storms that have passed our way
  • my supportive family
  • my incredible church family
  • a sump pump that continued to work for 10 weeks of water and sand seepage
  • birds singing and bugs chirping
  • neighbors and friends who lend a hand in your time of need
  • being able to sleep withe the windows open
  • a new deck to enjoy summer when it stops storming so much
  • the sound of children playing outside on a warm summer night
  • heat when its cold and air conditioning when its hot
  • the blessing of a great job
  • church picnics
  • chocolate
  • beautiful sunsets over Lake Michigan
  • summer vacation
  • beautiful blue skies and warm (not hot) summer days